I have been mulling these over two ideas. The first is forgiveness is a gift. If we forgive someone of his or her wrong doing then that is a gift given from God. If we decide to reconcile with the person we can start to rebuild the tarnished relationship. The stickiness of rebuilding a relationship comes down to whom it is with in life. We have disagreements with our siblings, friends, parent’s, coworkers, and partners. How does a person settle these quarrels?
Using one’s self discretion we can decide if a dispute needs mending or continual disassociation. A clear and suitable technique for stitching together a broken relationship with any of the above is clearly love. All answers point back to love one another as one would love herself or himself. The love would take the form of forgiveness and that is why I believe forgiveness is a choice and that is a gift. What happens if disassociation is needed to help oneself?
The term disassociation is associated with a wide array of experiences in regard to physical, cognitive, or social well-being from mild to more severe trauma. An example of mild trauma would be physical injury where the person affected can, with time, rebound from said incident. In regard to more long-lasting distress we see cases like traumatic brain injuries, rape, serious injury, or even death. Furthermore disassociation is a process that causes a lack of connection in a person’s thoughts, memory, and sense of identity. This is a case that falls on a spectrum of daydreaming to an out of body experience.
The other thing is there is no device or measurement that can measure a person’s character, conviction, and heart. Then how do we as humans gage those qualities in a person whom we find suitable to spend our limited time here on earth? The thing that bothers me are these qualities for one, very few people even know they exist in the first place in humans and the second reason how does one showcase these qualities to the opposite sex or even employers? A person might think time but my rebuttal is how I can give my time when we have very little as is and a person has to take that chance. WHOA, Chad, one might say you are freaking crazy, take a chance, but that means I am allowing myself to be vulnerable, develop feelings, and potential to be hurt. My reply to that would be, join the club. I have been putting myself out there every damn day, to what, be overlooked for what, I don’t know, maybe the point of life is to model our own behavior in hopes we can make other individuals realize that his or her life is not that bad. I hope this post has created some feeling of wonderment but not anger or Chad is just being an ass. I rant at times not to play the guilt game but to produce meaningful change.
- What you think?
- How do I feel part of this community when I am shunned by all?
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